Something to think about...
Read this post from duponthumanite and comment on it in your journal--and let her know that you've done it and you came from my journal.
I'm a bit overwhelmed reading the linked site at the moment. I'll post my response tomorrow... If I try to do it now, I will do something I don't have the freedom yet to do: cry. No crying until I can--you know--blow my nose. Less than 11 hours! Woo hoo!