I need to apologize if I offended anyone with my post yesterday. It was not intentional. I am afraid that I didn't do very well at putting my thoughts in words and part of the point of my post was lost; but I'm not sure it's worth going over anymore. I still think that if holidays were not so secularized, people might be better at respecting each other's faith; but I think differently from a lot of Christians and that ideal isn't going to be--at least not for a long time. It does make me sad, and I appreciate those who took the time to educate me about things I obviously don't understand.